Hlanganisa izandla ukuhlonipha abantu abadala kwaye ugcwalise igadi ngokufudumala

Ngeli xesha lonyaka eligcwele ukufudumala kunye nenkathalo, ndinombulelo ngentliziyo yam yonke,

Uphehlelele umsitho wesisa wamakhaya abongikazi ngomxholo othi "Ukuhlanganisa Uthando, Ukutshona kwelanga okufudumeleyo".

Siyazi ukuba wonke umntu osele ekhulile ubalulekile eluntwini.

Ngoku, masisebenzise izenzo ezisebenzisekayo ukubabuyisela kwimigudu yabo size sivumele uthando nokufudumala kuqukuqele ezintliziyweni zabo.

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Imisebenzi yesisa

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Imisebenzi yesisa

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??Inkathalo ekhethekileyo kunye nokufudumala:

• Ukutya Okusempilweni: Sikhetha ngononophelo ukutya okunezondlo nokugaywa lula ukunika ukutya okunempilo nokumnandi kubantu abadala, ngethemba lokuba incasa yabo inokubuva ubumnandi kunye nolonwabo lobomi.
• thanda imvulophu ebomvu: Ukongezelela ekunyamekeleni izinto eziphathekayo, sikwalungiselela neemvulophu ezibomvu zothando nangona zinganzima, zizele yintlonelo yethu enzulu neentsikelelo zethu kubantu abakhulileyo. Ndiyathemba ukuba esi senzo sincinci singongeza uxolo lwengqondo kunye novuyo kwiminyaka yabo yamva.

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??Ubuqabane sesona sivumo side sothando:
Kubomi basezidolophini obuxakekileyo, abantu abadala badla ngokuziva bengamalolo ngenxa yokuxakeka kwabantwana babo. Ke ngoko, ngomhla womsitho, amavolontiya ethu abasebenzi baya kuguqula abe "izithunywa zothando", bangene kwikhaya labalupheleyo, bahlale ubuso ngobuso kunye nabantu abadala. Siya kuphulaphula amabali abo ngononophelo nokuba kukutshiseka kobutsha, umzabalazo weminyaka ephakathi, okanye ukungakhathali ebudaleni, baya kuba zezona nkumbulo zixabisekileyo ezintliziyweni zethu. Kuyo yonke incoko, uthando nenkathalo mayigeleze njengamanzi, zifudumeza iintliziyo zomnye nomnye.

??Yabelanani ngawo wonke umzuzu wobomi kwaye nizobe umfanekiso ofudumeleyo kunye:
Ukongezelela ekuphulaphuleni, sikwakhuthaza abakhulileyo ukuba babelane ngamabali obomi babo. Ingaba ukufudumala kwentsapho, amabali anomdla malunga nabahlobo, okanye iintsikelelo ezincinci zemihla ngemihla, zonke ziya kuba yimixholo yethu eqhelekileyo. Ekuhlekeni nasekuhlekeni, asiphuculi nje kuphela unxibelelwano lweemvakalelo kunye nabantu abadala, kodwa kwakhona senza ikhaya labalupheleyo lizaliswe ngamandla kunye namandla. Umfanekiso ngamnye ofudumeleyo uya kuba ngumkhenkce apha kwaye ube yinkumbulo yanaphakade.

??Vumela ubushushu bungene kulo lonke uncumo:
Kwinkqubo yokukhapha nokuphulaphula, siya kulubamba olona ncumo lunyanisekileyo lwabakhulileyo. Kolo ncumo, kukho ulwaneliseko lobomi, ulindelo lwekamva, nombulelo ngenkathalo yethu. Masiluxabise olu ncumo kuba luyimbonakaliso yokwenene yothando nokufudumala. Ndiyathemba ukuba lo mfudumalo unokuhlala ezintliziyweni zabo bonke abantu abalupheleyo ixesha elide kwaye ube ngowona bushushu belanga kubomi babo bamva.

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Esi siganeko asikho nje umnikelo wezinto eziphathekayo olula, kodwa kunye nokutshintshiselana ngokomoya kunye nokungqubana.

Isinika ithuba lokunxibelelana ngokusondeleyo kunye nokuqonda abantu abadala, kwaye sizive ubulumko babo kunye nokuqokelela kwexesha.

Okubaluleke ngakumbi kukuba, esi siganeko sasenza saqonda ukuba ukunyamekela abantu abalupheleyo kuthetha ukukhathalela ikamva lethu.

Kwixesha elide lomlambo, wonke umntu uya kuguga, kwaye ukuzinikela kunye nemigudu yanamhlanje kuqokelela iintsikelelo kunye nokufudumala kwikamva langomso.

Esi siganeko asizange nje sinikele inyameko yezinto eziphathekayo nokunceda abakhulileyo, kodwa okubaluleke ngakumbi, sabanika intuthuzelo enkulu nenkxaso yokomoya.

Isenza sikuqonde nzulu ukubaluleka kokuhlonela abantu abadala, yaye ikwakhuthaza zonke iinkalo zobomi ukuba zinikele ingqalelo yaye zinyamekele abakhulileyo.

UQuanyi ukumema ngokunyanisekileyo ukuba ube kunye nathi, masisebenze kunye ukuze sizise ubuqabane nokunyamekela abakhulileyo abakumakhaya abalupheleyo.

Masibambane ngezandla ukwakha ibhulorho yothando kwaye senze umhlaba ube yindawo engcono ngenxa yobukho bethu!