Gwirizanitsani manja kuti mulemekeze okalamba ndikudzaza munda ndi kutentha

Munthawi ino yodzaza ndi chikondi ndi chisamaliro, ndikuthokoza ndi mtima wanga wonse,

Anakhazikitsa mwambo wachifundo kwa nyumba zosungira anthu okalamba wokhala ndi mutu wakuti "Kusonkhanitsa Chikondi, Kulowa kwa Dzuwa Lofunda".

Tikudziwa kuti munthu wokalamba aliyense ndi wofunika kwambiri kwa anthu.

Tsopano, tiyeni tigwiritse ntchito zochita zopindulitsa kubwezera zoyesayesa zawo ndi kulola chikondi ndi chikondi kuyenda m’mitima yawo.

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Zochita zachifundo

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Zochita zachifundo

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??Chisamaliro chapadera ndi kutentha:

• Chakudya chopatsa thanzi: Timasankha mosamala zakudya zopatsa thanzi komanso zosavuta kugayidwa kuti tipatse okalamba chakudya chopatsa thanzi komanso chokoma, tikuyembekeza kuti zokometsera zawo zitha kumvanso kukoma ndi chisangalalo cha moyo.
• chikondi envelopu yofiira: Kuwonjezera pa chisamaliro chakuthupi, tinakonzanso maenvulopu ofiira achikondi ngakhale kuti si olemera, ali odzaza ndi ulemu waukulu ndi madalitso athu kwa okalamba. Ndikukhulupirira kuti kachitidwe kakang'ono aka kakhoza kuwonjezera mtendere wamalingaliro ndi chisangalalo kuzaka zawo zakutsogolo.

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??Ubwenzi ndi chivomerezo chautali cha chikondi:
M’moyo wa m’tauni wotanganidwa, okalamba ka?irika?iri amasungulumwa chifukwa cha kutanganidwa kwa ana awo. Choncho, pa tsiku la mwambowu, antchito athu odzipereka adzasintha kukhala "amithenga achikondi", amalowa m'nyumba yosungirako okalamba, ndikukhala maso ndi maso ndi okalamba Sipadzakhala phokoso, koma moona mtima. Tidzamvetsera nkhani zawo mosamalitsa, kaya ndi chilakolako cha unyamata, kulimbana kwa zaka zapakati, kapena kusayanjanitsika mu ukalamba, zidzakhala zokumbukira zamtengo wapatali kwambiri m'mitima yathu. M’kukambitsirana kulikonse, lolani chikondi ndi chisamaliro ziziyenda ngati madzi, kutenthetsa mitima ya wina ndi mnzake.

??Gawani mphindi iliyonse ya moyo ndikujambula chithunzi chachikondi pamodzi:
Kuwonjezera pa kumvetsera, timalimbikitsanso okalamba kuti afotokoze nkhani za moyo wawo. Kaya ndi chikondi cha m'banja, nkhani zosangalatsa za abwenzi, kapena madalitso ang'onoang'ono a tsiku ndi tsiku, zonsezi zidzakhala mitu yathu yofanana. M’kuseka ndi kuseka, sitimangowonjezera kulankhulana kwamaganizo ndi okalamba, komanso timapanga nyumba yosungiramo okalamba kukhala ya nyonga ndi nyonga. Chithunzi chilichonse chofunda chidzayimitsidwa pano ndikukhala kukumbukira kosatha.

??Lolani kutentha kulowerere kumwetulira kulikonse:
Potsagana ndi kumvetsera, tidzagwira kumwetulira kochokera pansi pa mtima kwa okalamba. M’kumwetulira kumeneko, mumakhala wokhutira ndi moyo, ziyembekezo za m’tsogolo, ndi kuyamikira chisamaliro chathu. Tiyeni tizisangalala ndi kumwetulira kumeneku chifukwa ndi chizindikiro chenicheni cha chikondi ndi chikondi. Ndikukhulupirira kuti kutentha kumeneku kungakhale m’mitima ya munthu wokalamba aliyense kwa nthawi yaitali ndikukhala dzuwa lotentha kwambiri m’moyo wawo wam’tsogolo.

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Chochitika ichi sichiri chophweka chopereka chakuthupi, komanso kusinthana kwauzimu ndi kugundana.

Zimatipatsa mwayi wolumikizana ndi okalamba ndikumvetsetsa, ndikumva nzeru zawo ndi kudzikundikira nthawi.

Chofunika kwambiri n’chakuti chochitika chimenechi chinatithandiza kuzindikira kuti kusamalira okalamba kumatanthauza kusamalira tsogolo lathu.

M’kupita kwa ntha?i, aliyense adzakalamba, ndipo kudzipatulira ndi zoyesayesa za lero zikuunjikira madalitso ndi chikondi cha mawa.

Chochitika chimenechi sichinangopereka chisamaliro chakuthupi ndi chithandizo kwa okalamba, koma koposa zonse, chinawapatsa chitonthozo chachikulu chauzimu ndi chichirikizo.

Zimatipangitsa kuzindikira mozama kufunika kwa kulemekeza okalamba, komanso kumalimbikitsa anthu amitundu yonse kuti azisamalira ndi kusamalira okalamba.

Quanyi akukuitanani mowona mtima kuti mudzakhale nafe, tiyeni tichitepo kanthu kuti tibweretse mayanjano owonjezereka ndi chisamaliro kwa okalamba m’nyumba zosungira okalamba.

Tiyeni tigwirizane kuti timange mlatho wachikondi ndikupanga dziko lapansi kukhala malo abwinoko chifukwa chokhalapo kwathu!